Violence Prevention and Response
Violence Prevention and Response (VPR) is MIT’s free and confidential on-campus resource for preventing and responding to interpersonal violence including sexual assault, dating and domestic violence, stalking, and sexual harassment.
VPR provides support to undergraduate and graduate students and their spouses who have experienced interpersonal violence regardless of where or when it happened. We also provide support to the friends, colleagues, professors, and families who seek to support a loved one.
Advocacy Services
Advocates at VPR provide emotional support as well as tangible resources, including referrals and assistance in assessing available options such as:
- Obtaining medical and legal assistance
- Accessing available counseling services on or off campus
- Navigating campus procedures, including housing, academic help, the campus reporting process, and the adaptable resolution process
Working with a VPR advocate is different from therapy, and many students find it helpful to work with both an advocate and a therapist. Don’t worry about whether your situation “qualifies” – we’re here to help or guide you to the right support.
Options for Requesting and Receiving Services
To request advocacy services either:
- Call the VPR Helpline (617-253-2300) — Helpline hours are Monday-Friday, 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. ET; Outside these hours, our phone tree can connect you to available 24-hour resources, or to our voicemail.
- Make an appointment online — If you are unable to speak safely in your current situation, appointments can be made using our online contact form or via email.
Appointments can happen over the phone, using video conferencing or in person — we can work to find whatever feels most comfortable for you. While we recommend sitting down with an advocate alone, you may choose to bring a friend. We want to make sure the time is focused on you and your needs. All decisions are ultimately yours.
Confidentiality Expectations
All VPR services are confidential — We protect your privacy and trust. What you share with us remains confidential unless you choose to disclose it. We respect your right to make informed decisions about your own information.
Exceptions to Confidentiality
There are rare situations where we may be legally required to share information. An advocate will fully explain these limitations before your first session.
It is important to note that you are not obligated to provide details in order to work with an advocate and you can ask questions about confidentiality at any time.
Supporting Others
If someone you know has disclosed that they have experienced harm and you are interested in connecting them with VPR, you should:
- Ask if they’re interested in meeting with an advocate
- Let them choose how they want to connect (we won’t reach out without their direct consent)
- Know that you are not alone. We’re here to support you and your loved one’s emotional wellbeing during what is often a challenging experience. VPR advocates can help you:
- Gather information on options for the harmed person
- Find resources for the harmed person
- Figure out how to support the harmed person
- Provide emotional support for you as a supporter
Remember, you don’t need to have all the answers.
Considerations for Parents and Partners
If you are a parent or partner of someone who has experienced harm, here are some things to consider as you support them:
When a loved one is hurt, your instinct is to protect them. It’s natural to feel helpless or guilty, but the most important thing is to be supportive. Ask them what they need right now, and be ready to listen. They may not be ready to speak with VPR, or a similar service. Remember, everyone processes difficult experiences differently. Your role is to support their choices and healing journey.
Supporting a loved one through trauma can be challenging. Take care of yourself too—seek support, process your feelings, and don’t hesitate to ask for help. By caring for your own well-being, you’ll be better equipped to support your loved one with compassion and strength. VPR can connect you with relevant resources. Don’t hesitate to reach out.
Romantic and/or sexual partners of someone who has experienced harm may have some additional considerations while providing support, such as:
Sharing experiences of harm can be incredibly difficult. Many survivors take time to open up, and that’s okay. Remember that this is their information to share and the fact that they came to you is likely a sign that they find you safe and trustworthy.
Build trust in your relationship by openly discussing boundaries and consent. Ensure both you and your partner feel safe, respected, and in control. Honest, compassionate communication is key to a healthy, supportive connection.
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